A Laid-Back Fall Wedding at The Estate at Florentine Gardens in River Vale, New Jersey

Even though Trevor Kacedon (32, a drug development project manager) and Bradley Vile (34, an actor and writer) met in 2001, they didn't officially start dating 10 years later, in 2011. "We kept in touch constantly, even saw one another occasionally. But when I was ready to date, he was pursuing his career across the country. When he was ready to date, I was already dating someone else. It just seemed like he was destined to be the man that got away," says Trevor. Luckily, the tide turned in 2011 when both of them found themselves living in New Jersey. "Despite the fact that I knew Trevor was 'the one' within the first ten minutes of the dating phase of our relationship, it still took us an agonizing year and a half before we were engaged," recalls Brad. The proposal finally happened surrounded by friends at Brad's family's home in Cape May. After a 14 month engagement, the star-crossed lovers were finally married in a cheerful, autumn affair at The Estate at Florentine Gardens. "We didn’t have specific colors, really. We just went with an array of bold, fall-themed colors. Lots of deep oranges and purples with maroon and yellow accents," says Brad.