Heather & Herman in Cape May, NJ

Heather was working as an assistant to the Dean of the Architecture school at New York City's Cooper Union when she met Herman, who was studying for his architecture degree. It was no surprise, then, that Herman ended up designing most of the wedding -- from the engagement ring to the invitations -- and even the cake! The Bride Heather Becker, 36, Pediatrician The Groom Herman Ventura, 37, Construction Estimator The Date May 16