A English-Inspired DIY Wedding at James P. Davis Hall in Kansas City, Kansas

Jennifer, 30, a photographer, and Clayton (Clay), 30, an investment banker, met through mutual friends. About three years later, he proposed. They wer

Jennifer, 30, a photographer, and Clayton (Clay), 30, an investment banker, met through mutual friends. About three years later, he proposed. They were getting ready to leave for Europe when Clay sprained his ankle in the first 50 years of a Tough Mudder. He skipped the doctor and promised he would be able to walk around Europe. “On the day we were leaving, we both headed out of work early so we could get to the airport on time,” Jennifer says. “A few weeks prior, Clay had invested in a digital recorder to capture our trip and had already taken some video of me packing the night before. So I didn’t think anything of it when he said he wanted us to record ourselves chatting about our upcoming adventure before the cab came. Clay set the camera up on the counter and said we were going to talk about the three places we were visiting. I figured he just wanted to show our parents this when we got back. All of a sudden, mid leap, Clay crashed to the floor, and grabbed his sprained ankle, crying that he hurt it again. His thought was that I would kneel down, the kind, loving girlfriend he believed me to be, ask if he was okay while freaking out that he’d need to go to the hospital and we'd miss our flight. Then, while I would be thinking our trip was doomed, he’d prop up on one knee and propose, effectively causing me to cry and laugh, hug him and be utterly relieved. All the while catching this act of love on video. However, instead of running to him, I decided that since he fell and hurt himself again I should turn the camera off (who wants to see that?). Clay kept telling me to point the camera at him as he writhed on the floor, while I tried to figure out where the power button was. Finally, I gave up and pointed the camera at him since I obviously wasn't going to figure out how to turn it off. He grunted in pain one more time, then jumped up on his knee, held out a ring and asked, ‘Marry me?’ My shock manifested itself in a loss for words, and I stared at Clay awkwardly and silently for several seconds. Then, I began to try to push my finger through the ring he was holding (shiny, want!) before I had said anything. I quickly came to, and said yes!” The couple wanted their wedding day to perfectly complement them. Jennifer was inspired by one of her bridesmaid’s sister’s English countryside wedding. She wanted a beautiful, but raw wedding full of lace details and simple flowers. They chose teal for their main color, but kept the other colors neutral. They had a rustic ceremony followed by a fun reception at the James P. Davis Hall, where they entered as husband and wife to a song from Harry Potter. “We’re that couple,” Jennifer says.

Cushion, Square-Cut Engagement Ring
Inspirational Saying TOM Wedding Shoes
“I wanted something simple,” Jennifer says. “As much as I love elaborate dresses, I wanted one that looked a bit vintage, that looked like it belonged in that gorgeous stone building we were getting married in.” She chose Maggie Sottero's Bronwyn gown from Ida's Bridal.
Jennifer carried dried lavender. “I love the smell,” Jennifer says. “And dried lavender lasts for an entire year so you really get your money's worth.”
Jennifer wrapped her dried lavender bouquet with lace and tied it with a burlap string for some elegant, rustic flare.
“I asked my girls to pick out their own dresses since they had such different body types and I wanted them to find something in their own budget that they would wear again,” Jennifer says. “Being November, I knew it would be cold so asked them to pick out cardigans and scarves that would complement their look.” The bridesmaids wore different shades of turquoise.
The groomsmen wore classic black suits, and Clay bought them ties to match the dress of the bridesmaid they walked down the aisle with.
Jennifer and Clay at James P. Davis Hall
Jennifer and Clay exchanged vows at the James P. Davis Hall. “We were instantly drawn to it for several reasons,” Jennifer says. “For once, the price couldn't be beat. But also, it really reminded me of the gorgeous stone buildings we see in the UK, especially with the fireplaces and wooden chandeliers inside.”
Jennifer and Clay in Kansas City, Kansas
Rustic Cocktail Hour Welcome Chalkboard
One of Jennifer’s bridesmaids is from Glossop, England. “I was really inspired by her younger sister's wedding, which took place on the English countryside,” Jennifer says. “I wanted something similar with lots of lace, bunting and simple flowers. Beautiful but not completely put together, if that makes any sense.”
Mason jars fill of baby’s breath sat on wooden rounds for the long reception table centerpieces. The caterer also sprinkled fresh rosemary across the tables for a little extra flare.
Silver and Teal Place Settings
Jennifer and Clay used old books to hold up their painted wooden table numbers.
Vintage Wooden Box Centerpieces
Rustic Lantern, Baby's Breath Reception Decor
Jennifer and Clay enjoyed a one-tier white buttercream wedding cake adorned with fresh baby’s breath.
Jennifer and Clay Cake Cutting
Jennifer and Clay First Dance