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A Classic Purple Wedding at The Bauer in Kansas City, Missouri

Shannon Miller (25 and an Autism program facilitator and counseling intern) and Trevor Tobaben (29 and a utility locator) met through Shannon’s stepbr

Shannon Miller (25 and an Autism program facilitator and counseling intern) and Trevor Tobaben (29 and a utility locator) met through Shannon’s stepbrother. Trevor proposed on their three-year anniversary. For their wedding the couple chose The Bauer for its vintage feel and gorgeous downtown Kansas City backdrop. They had their wedding in the evening so guests could enjoy the lit-up views. Inspired by the rustic, vintage-looking venue, they chose antique shades of purple, gray and ivory for their color palette. They worked with Craig Sole Designs to create lush, wildflower-inspired floral arrangements including the blue nigella boutonnieres. Since they both love brewing and tasting different beers, they ensured there was great beer at the reception. The night ended with with some alternative, hip-hop music from DJ Marc O'Leary and a grand exit in a vintage Rolls Royce.

Elegant Purple Invitation Suite
Sparkly Champagne Benjamin Adams Shoes
Shannon wore a lace and tulle ivory Pronovias dress with buttons up the back.
Shannon carried a hand-tied bouquet including roses, lisianthus and peonies and accented with a vintage rose broach.
The bridesmaids wore knee-length muted, antique violet dresses with crochet TOMS. They completed the look with braided updos.
Purple Lace TOMS Wedding Shoes
The bridesmaids carried roses, hydrangeas, lavender, lisianthus and nigellas in their wildflower-inspired bouquets.
The groomsmen wore charcoal gray tuxedos with purple vests, ties and pocket squares to match the color palette. Trevor wore a white vest and tie to match Shannon.
The groomsmen wore blue nigellas for their boutonnieres.
The flower girl wore a white tulle dress with a purple belt to match the bridesmaid dresses. She completed with look with a purple flower crown and purple chuck shoes.
“We had our wedding at The Bauer in Kansas City,” Shannon says. “We chose this venue for the vintage feel and loved how the Kansas City view. It was an indoor wedding during the evening so was able to see a lit up view of Kansas City.”
Rustic Purple, White, Yellow Wildflower Aisle Decor
Shannon and Trevor Ring Ceremony Tradition
Shannon and Trevor First Kiss
Shannon and Trevor Recessional
Purple and White Wildflower-Inspired Centerpieces
Shannon and Trevor Cake Cutting
Shannon and Trevor First Dance
Shannon and Trevor gave guests little s’more kits tied with a purple card that said, “Sending you s’more love.”
Shannon and Trevor Sparkler Exit
Shannon and Trevor left in a vintage Rolls Royce, which was one of their favorite parts of the wedding.